A few weeks ago, my second party went down. And holy crap, I was nervous about the size of the party expanding by 5 people.
It’s a lot when you live in a 1 bedroom apartment!
But, due to cancellations, it ended up being the same size as the last one. Phew.
Anyway, we had a number of new people, all of whom said they probably wouldn’t be playing that evening but came to watch.
All of whom ended up playing to varying degrees. So this formula seems to be working…
No “never have I ever” this time. We tried out Clusterfuck (from the makers of Cards Against Humanity). Which was interesting because it involves trying to set up a theoretical threesome or hooking up with people. Some seemed confused as to whether this was a binding contract for later during the party or just a game. But it was hilarious. Especially since everyone kept trying to (unsuccessfully) set up threesomes. No points were scored until the final round when the only points scored were by a successful threesome. Who knew it’d be such a hard game to get points!
The introductions were paired with all saying what our “mildest and wildest” things we considered doing that evening were. I was shocked that everyone felt comfortable enough to play along and be open about it.
We also tried out a beta card game from the Sex is Fun folks. This led to some fun interactions and challenging the group to start stepping out of their comfort zones. Though the cards did start to escalate a little too quickly, things fizzled out once a good chunk of the table was off in the other rooms playing due to their card choices. So it made for a very natural transition that worked.
Not much else to say other than some wonderful sexy times followed!
Though, the question is, now that I have too many people for one party, do I try having more people come or have smaller parties more frequently?
But, really, this is not a bad problem to have, just logistics. 😉