I’m not sure how you folks that get fantastic responses to your ads on Craigslist do it…
Historically, I’ve had nothing but trouble in getting anything other than spam responses. Though, to be fair, that’s mostly from posting in the nsa section. But, following my Friends with Benefits post, I decided to make a post in the m4w section on Craigslist.
Weeks passed. Nothing.
Then I got an interesting message from a trans guy. Seemed nice, but we didn’t seem to have much in common.
The second message I got was from someone who, it turned out, I had met a few times before at a munch years ago! We ended up laughing about it and catching up (SMALL WORLD!)
The third came today. I’m just touched by this and really appreciate you reaching out and taking the time to send this message, Z.
Hey there,I’m a dude(-ish, most of the time), so obviously not what you’re looking for, but just wanted to send some major props your way for the being so open with your thoughts about sexuality and gender. I’ve never read a post in the m4w section where a guy’s mentioned that they think of sexuality/gender as a spectrum, let alone admitted that they like women that might not fit completely at the feminine extreme of the spectrum, so it made me smile to know that there are progressive guys like you out who are okay with putting those things out there. Add that to the being open to all shapes/sizes, and I’m just blown away.I really, really hope you find someone who matches your awesomeness. Keep being awesome and do what you do!-Z